I went to my facebook, Twitter, 2go and Nimbuzz Account and just updated my Status to "WHAT DO WOMEN WANT? As usual, topics like dat will always raise few dusts and mine neva failed to disappoint, dis first generated a little arguement among some of my colleagues in my office as dey all give dia opinion on WHAT WOMEN WANT....My elder Sister Oluwafisayomi Oloruntimehin who understood wia i was coming from cud not help commenting on my status wit a very short comment:"Women are special so, count yourself lucky guyyyyyyy!"
Another Respondent, Giovanni wud not agree dat women are special... According to him, no man can kno d way of a woman or What dey want cos dia (women) way are like snake upon d rock... As if to buttress his point, Giov propounded an arguement dat Women needed to be lied to "wen u tell a woman d whole truth, she takes advantage of it and slips down but wen u lie to her, she is always on her toe making u feel like a king..."while i beg to differ on dat point, experience showed how some women wud not believe any truth u tell dem but swallow d lies u tell Hook, line and Sinker.
Mr Sunday Ologbon corroborates Giov's point wen he enthused dat Women needs care, love, Affection but above all dey needed 2 be lied to...Being still a bachelor who is aspiring to drop my "Bachelor degree" For a "Master Degree in family life", i was taken aback by Mr Sunny's comment considering d fact dat he is a Married man.... Can he be speaking from Experience? Is he really saying i sud start lying to Temmy if i need to satisfy her? WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT? I prodded further, Timehin Adefemi... A friend and clanmate cud not tell me what i wanted to kno as he returned my question wit a a more puzzling answer... According to him, "Just like u, all men keeps asking same question everyday bcos women are so unpredictable".
If Timehin's response was puzzling, Femi Francis, my childhood friend threw a bombshell wen he declared dat Any man who says he understand what women wants is a fool.... B4 i cud recover from my Shock, Femi added dat Women themselves do not understand themselves... now, b4 u start castigating my friend for his comment, i Want u to Kno dat Femi lived in UK, married to a beautiful wife, had 2 lovely babies, and like me, had 3 sisters in his family wit his mum & dad bubbling in gud health so Femi may av been an expert in d women ministry to make such a comment. And just so u kno, Femi is not alone in dat assumption, Engineer Oladimeji Olutimehin stated dat The truth is no woman knows what she wants as Anyone that comes which fits her for that moment goes. Engineer Dimeji added dat women rely so much on emotions which swings like a pendulum. "be urself b4 a woman and u will win her. Trying to please will make u weak in her eyes. You have to show u are d man wisely though" He concluded..... Mmmm... Words of wisdom...
Another respondent, Bro Odunayo Ayomovich was more direct as he stated dat Women wants and needs depends on emotion, according to him, "you can't studied women ahead. As Events at a particular time will trigger it" but his final words "Afi k'Oluwa ko wa yo" (May God save us from dem) shows dat he too is still trying to fathom WHAT WOMEN WANTS..
Not wanting to be outdone in d debate, women lent dia voices as Olubukola Folasayo, a friend and sister said All women want is to be RESPECT & 2 b heard.... As if trying to use my page to pass across her msg and Be heard, Sayo fiercely added, "damn those men who dont respect us!".Chichi (not real name) was of d opinion dat women want parity and Equal opportunity and argued dat dey had been denied dose opportunities in d society....I find it funny to think someone felt women are not given opportunities in society....
Maybe dose same pple av forgotten dat d women we gave little opportunities in society often misuse it...Lets assuming we want to overlook d opportunity given to Eve by Adam which brings u to our present situation, but other women like our one time SPEAKER, MINISTERs (Save Madam Okonjo Eweala) etc..B4 i move outta line wit d topic on ground, lemme tell u what TEMMY herself said on d issues... According to her, "God will help us to know what we really want & may God grant all our (GOOD) heart desires. She howeva had d last word, "men sud remember dt without women, dey are incomplete...Yeah... I think we (men and Women) complement each other.... Dat's why we were made for each others (Genesis 2:24).... But I still believe that the real answer lies with WOMEN, they only can tell us WHAT THE REALLY WANT...
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